Make Sure Your Major is not Minor

Major > Minor TITLEIf you know anything about musical instruments, music, or have an ear for tone, you know how easy it is to make an incredibly different sound come out of an instrument to make a song that is in a Major key sound minor. You really have to make sure your majors are major.

It just takes one or two inches on a fingerboard, or a slight slide of a valve to completely change the temperature of a piece. And this isn’t too far off in life.

I am an intense person. I get pretty fired up about stuff, sometimes pretty easily. Often times I get fired up because I believe in something, but sometimes I get fired up and, honestly, I’m not sure why I am fired up.

I mean, I would like to think that everything that I get bothered over is important and valuable. But, I’d just be trying to legitimize some things that just aren’t that important in the long run. They just aren’t that major.

See, there are only a couple differences between Major and minor. And sometimes, often times, we can start singing a minor song thinking that we are in a Major key. And when we do that, it 1) doesn’t sound very good, and 2) really detracts from the mission at hand.

I’ve heard the statement before:

Major in the Majors, and minor in the minors.

Now, it’s not a perfect illustration, but when we Major in the minors, we make big deals out of things that really aren’t big deals. We make “mountains out of mole hills.” And when we do that, we 1) don’t sound very good, and 2) really detract from the mission at hand.

What I’ve noticed is that we don’t quite realize how we do this. I’ve noticed that we do this and we either don’t recognize it because we don’t have people pointing these type of things out to us or, we find ways to legitimize our minor beef by putting it in a false understanding of what is important to the mission.

Take church growth for example. One might think that the most important thing to growing is learning and teaching, how to invite others into a church service or building. But that is so not what happened in the book of Acts.

42 They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer43 Everyone was filled with awe at the many wonders and signs performed by the apostles. 44 All the believers were together and had everything in common. 46 Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, 47 praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people.  And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved. - Acts 2:42-46

Isn’t that amazing?! They weren’t even focused on growing their body of believers. It just happened because they were obedient to what God had already told them to do.

I find this so powerful. And I’ve seen it before, but not like this. It makes Matthew 6:33 make even more sense. They were so devoted to an idea, a person, that was so much bigger than the end result.

It makes me ask myself about my focus. Am I focused on loving each other as Christ has loved me or am I focused on hoping that more people will come through our doors on Sunday morning? I be we know which one is healthier. I bet we all know which one will display for the world that we are His disciples.

So what are you focused on today? What are you majoring in? Is your Major a Major?

Leave a comment. I want to know!

Take a Step Today Towards THERE!

FirstFollowerBUTTONWisdom is one of the most needed things in the world. It gives direction to foolish men, it guides and directs our path. But, I’m afraid that too many young leaders, like myself, mistake wisdom for worry in many cases. The reason I know this is: they aren’t doing anything or going anywhere.

They need to take a step today, towards THERE but they are stuck worrying about HERE.

I was talking with a friend who leads a ministry organization and we were talking about leading through change. We both have had significant leadership opportunities and have also had major change in different areas of our leadership. As we talked, a few things became crystal clear to me:

1. You can’t get THERE if you aren’t willing to start going someWHERE.

The only thing that inactivity did was keep you right where you are at. You can’t possibly think that you get from HERE to THERE if you aren’t willing to go someWHERE.

2. You will never get THERE if you are stuck, trying to get HEREpeople to look like THEREpeople.

We, as an organization; as a movement, will never be who we need to be as a collective body if we are unwilling to actually go through the growing pains to become the body/organization/movement we are called to be.

3. Sometimes, you don’t have to know what THERE looks like in order to take the first step from HERE.

This is where leaders begin to replace WISDOM with WORRY, by trying to figure out what the end result is, solely to bring comfort to those they are trying to move, by painting a complete picture that they have no idea how to paint. Sometimes, you don’t have to see Step #56 in order to move on Step #1.

MOVEMENTS only move when LEADERS are willing to do what it takes to ACTIVATE the body to MOVE.

Middle Schoolers are Visionaries not Dreamers

Mission-Me MOTTOIf I am going to identify that we are short-changing middle schoolers, I probably better come up with some ways to encourage them. I am not even going to propose that I have this figured out. But I can tell you where we are going with things at Living Faith.

This month, we are engaging in a new series called “Mission:Me” where we are asking the question: “What am I Here For?” The promise in Ephesians 2:10 that has rocked my world for the past 5 years and is the basis for this first step is that God, in his infinite knowledge and grace, made each of us in a specific form, for a specific set of functions. The passage reads: “For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.”

In Joel 2:28, God promises that he will pour out His Spirit on all people. That “your old men will dream dreams, your young men will see visions.” So, the old men will have these dreams of what could be and the young men will have visions of how to see it come to fruition. What an amazing promise, especially when it comes to my context.

So, this month, we are going to ask “What are we going to do” and I’m having both Middle School and High School begin to ask that question. We are going to discover, discern, and then set a destination where God wants us to go and what he wants us to do. No restrictions. No pre-planned destination. Just an opportunity to dream dreams that produce visions.

It’s an incredible thing to dream of what is in front of us. When we dream, we may not have a concept of reality, or the burden of dealing with potential consequences; we just dream of what could be. And when we allow people to dream, we give those dreams the opportunity to become visions; Visions that change people’s lives.

So that’s where we are starting. What are you giving Middle Schoolers to do that is at their actual “pay grade” as visionaries?

Your Words Could Have More Weight

I read a lot of words in one day. So many that I rarely remember even some of the most important ones that get said to me. But, I do remember a lot of what people do.

That’s ironic because we hear quotes of words that impressive people have uttered and cherish them. But do we cherish them because of what is said, or who said it? And why do we care who said it if we really aren’t affected by the words themselves.

The reason is, the people that are quoted, represent something; something deeper, something much more significant than a few catchy words put together to create a cliche’ of some sort.

The reason certain people have words that sink our hearts is because of how they lived. Most times, their words were only a representation of something they had already lived. These types of individuals understand one principal:

“Your words are a product of your life because lives are never the product of words.”

Think about it- the most significant words you have heard were ingrained into your life because of the person who said them.

So, instead of asking does my life line up with my words, maybe we should be asking: What is my life allowing me to say?

It’s time to turn the tables!

What Are You Building That For?

Who are you building forI was having a conversation with a friend recently, and I was talking about some things that I wanted to do. Mainly, just calling things how they are or how I see them. It’s not a hard thing to do, generally, you just say whatever comes to mind. Frankly, that’s not the most productive thing in the world, all the time, and so it needs to be somewhat tempered. But that’s another post for another day.

So, here goes:

What are you building that for?

What is “that” you might ask? I’m talking about your Kingdom you keep touting. That reputation you keep trying to uphold. That front you keep flashing to people so that they think you’re ok. I’m talking about the person you want everyone to see, not the person you actually might be. [Read more...]